dragas y pirates

random thoughts on the adventures de una ecua y su hijita living in a harsh mundo where they survive with the help of her alter ego the angry pirate... arg

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Monday, May 12, 2008

i'm ignorant and that's that

so my mother's day started out pretty nice. i got a nice gift. was taken to eat at my favorite sushi place that was wonderful and NOT crowded. then our little fam went to the mall to do some shopping for ecuabella. it was all going well till i mention the idea of adding to our little fam. it is after all MOTHER'S Day and i was feeling very maternal. unfortunately my husband wasn't.

he told me i was crazy if i thought we were having another child. he told me that it would be irresponsible to bring another child into this world when we are struggling to finish school and make ends meet. that i'm ignorant and immature for getting mad at him cuz he doesn't want another child. he's not having another child and that's that.

so i'm pissed. i'm pissed cuz we never discussed this as a couple. in his macho little brain it was enough that he thought this and that was the end of his discussion. he never thought to ask when i wanted to have another child. if there had to be certain circumstances and conditions that i would be ready to have another child. he never asked. because that was that.

now i admit that i may have been a little mean when i told him that if i get pregnant he should just leave cuz i'm not getting rid of my child. and i also told him that he does nothing for me and maybe before he talks he should actually put his wallet where is mouth is. yes i said those things but damn it i was mad. how dare he make these choices for our family. i'm still pissed. we haven't spoken since yesterday. and that was the end of my mother's day.

arg...