is four days in a row too much??

so let's go back in time to the weekend. we all know what happened after the ring ding thing.. i met up with ElDeLaPlumita and stayed over his place.. he drove me to work the next day... later that day we spoke. he was feeling crappy.. seems like i gave him my cold. so he wanted to stay in. i said ok.. thinking great i have to go to la kueva by my lonesome when he says... come over and spend time with me :0)...

so i make a quick pit stop at the liquor store and pick up some wine.. mmmm... and get to his place. he's cooking and we have a nice quiet dinner at home. we are both tired from our cold and from the antics of the night before.. and slowly begin to drift to sleep as we watch TV when his friend calls to go hang out. ok he says... we roll out of bed..i'm tired and tipsy from the wine.. he's just tired. we end up going bowling. now in my defense -- i havn't been bowling in years... i think the last time was... oh my god i can't even remember the last time.. needless to say i sucked ass. i freakin lost man!!!

but anyways after a quick game his friends decide to call it a night. arg... we were in bed already and they made us come out for one freakin game??? and to top it all off... we had to drive them home!!! que abuso. on the ride back to ElDeLaPlumita's house i had to keep the convo going cuz he was so tired. we talked about his exwife drama and his daughter and finally i complained about his friends.. i couldn't help it i was annoyed.

next day i leave around noonish... just to rest a little.. shower and get ready to go to the batcave. ElDeLaPlumita calls me and says he doens't know if he's gonna make it cuz he feels like crap and has a fever. i tell him well i'm gonna go for a little while. Missed Connections was playing and i wanted to meet up with el trompito and my excrush. so he says ok and goes back to bed. he calls me about an hour later while im in a cab and says he'll meet me there later.

he gets there and he's burning up. i try to keep him hydrated with cranberry juice and water but he feels crapy. he looked cute with his fresh haircut and stuff... but i knew he felt like shit. we were to stay just long enough to hear the band then go home. while waiting for the band to go on one of the chicks from the group (who now happens to be dating el argentino and she says he annoying as shit.. haha) asks him "is that ur girl?" refering to me.. and he says "yes"... "she's beautiful." "yep"... WHAT DOES THAT MEAN???

my excrush gets there and introduces himself. he later tells me that i was all wifey with plumitaboy... that i seem very into him.. and that plumitaboy seemed like a nice guy... had a good aura about him. he also said that i didn't dance all close to him like i usually did and that he missed that.. oh well... ur loss not mine.. :0)

so the band plays... the BAND was great. and ElDeLaPlumita wants to leave. he asks me if i'm staying.. um what?? of course not... i'm leaving with u. so as we are saying our goodbye's the chick that asked if i was his girl says to me..."u have a really good guy there... and u guys look so good together.. i was like oh my god when i saw ur hand on his knee.. u are both very lucky"... um... yeah i know he's a good guy... that's why i LIKE HIM SO MUCH!!!

next day i go tutor in the afternoon straight from his place... and we meet yet again for the movies later on... after the movie i make my way back home.. after 4 nights of not sleeping there. my parents.. pissed but surprisingly quiet about the whole thing.

so four nights.. isn't that a little much for two people that are just dating/fucking?? i think so. so does this mean that he also wants something more than just the dating/fucking?? i dunno... and i havn't built up the nerve to ask or even to bring up the "relationship" conversation cuz i'm afraid i'm gonna hear something that i don't want to hear. something like what mala said in her comment... "we're good friends why mess it up"... so it was a great weekend. i'm gonna try to stop stressing this whole let's define what this is crap cuz it's getting in the way of my enjoying the time i am spending with him...so that's it no more stressing.. no more thinking.. no more analyzing.. just enjoy and see where it goes... damn it i hope it goes somewhere... damn.. i'm stressing again.. arg